Within marriage God gives husbands and wives specific instructions
that will produce peace and happiness. Whether or not one has
followed God’s instructions regarding dating, these principles can help
any marriage.
Although the best course of action is always to follow all of God’s
instructions, God also allows and encourages everyone to turn from past
sins and begin obeying Him (Ezekiel 18:21; Acts 2:38; 26:18). (If you
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and The Road to Eternal Life.)
Although solid relationships are built more quickly when both husband
and wife accept and practice God’s laws, God expects each of
us to respond to Him regardless of the circumstances of our marriage
(James 4:17). Even when only one mate commits his or her life to God
and His standards, this opens the door to God blessing both partners
(1 Corinthians 7:13-14). A positive, loving example of obedience to God
by a husband or wife may influence the other to want to please God
(1 Peter 3:1-4). One person can make a difference.
Let us consider some biblical principles that when followed make
marriages work.